07/23/2026
I had a job that I loved so much I looked forward to Mondays just so I could be there.
Years into it, things shifted.
I started to lose sleep over behaviors that were happening with leadership. These were things that were affecting my ability to MY job effectively.
Eventually HR heard about it and while they said all the right things in the moment, ultimately they decided to side with leadership and allowed illegal and immoral things to continue.
I knew I had to make a decision and clearly that was to leave because, well, I’m here.
I walked away from my dream job - I literally dreamed about retiring from there and 100% planned to. It took a lot of grieving to understand that in order for me to live authentically, this had to happen.
Since then, nearly a decade ago, I have become more firm in who I am, what I believe in, and what I stand for.
Hear me and believe me when I say that Truly Yours Weddings will NEVER recommend other vendors or venues who offer incentives for referrals. Not only does it make us look bad, but it isn’t fair to our couples who could be missing out on vendors and experiences that would be a much better fit.
Recently a new venue who has no experience in this industry essentially fooled me into believing we were working toward creating a real partnership - not a referral system. They then offered me a substantial kickback for every wedding I sent them that got booked.
We choose to act with integrity so we kindly turned down their offer and wished them well. I also learned a valuable lesson in sharing my brain. ;)
Every industry has rotten apples who see money as the ultimate goal. We have always and will always stand firm in providing our couples with professional, ethical, and authentic experiences first and foremost.
(Picture of my dream job building as it stands now.)