08/30/2026
Today was a good day!
I have 2 people in my life that I went to school with, see each other individually, but the three of us have not been in the same space in 32 years. Tonight that changed.
I invited both of them to have a cookout at the shop tonight. One knew it was normal to do this at the shop, the other found it odd. What's odd about having a cookout at a garage?
They show up, as well as dad, and we enjoyed an evening of reminiscing, and burgers on the rocket stove. Old conversations, new conversations, it just felt normal. By the end of the night it was basically a continuation of the friendship from 32 years ago.
As far as doing this at the shop, that requires some explanation.
I have been in one way, shape, or form a part of this building since i was 13 years old. I started out scrubbing the floors every weekend when it was Baker Chevrolet. I did this for several years. I painted every square inch of the interior during this time. Dad was the Service Manager here while it was Baker's, then into Matway Chevrolet. He left Matway, but always said he would own it some day. That day came, he bought it, ran his business, then sold it to me.
All during this time, I had a key to the shop. This turned out to be "home base" of sorts throughout the years. We always met up, or hung out at the shop. Hell, I even had my bachelor party there. We went out to eat, then came back to the shop and just hung out and drank some b**r.
I've hidden from the police in the shop! Just a little matter of drag racing on I.G.A. stretch. Many races, never been caught!
This shop is my "gravitational center". I don't find it odd at all to hold gatherings there. If I'm not home, Kristine knows exactly where to find me. She doesn't need a tracking app on her phone to locate me.
Having a cookout there was normal for me. Getting the 3 of us together after all this time was a bonus.
Today was a good day!