09/15/2025
By this time most of you have heard of my brother in-law Stan Dogil ,who has been taken from us so soon. It seems impossible to believe God has bigger plans for Stan than her on earth. Stan is a man of integrity, kindness, considerate, all around an amazing human being.
Over the past 8 months, i have had the privilege of having spent most evenings with Stan and his family having dinner with them along with my mother , whom has moved into Stan's home as mom is being treated for cancer. Stan and i would spend some evenings working on his GTO and then his new dream car 1971 Trans-Am.
We would have shop talk, and i would listen to what his plans are with his new project car. Stan never ever complained about anything. Stan inspired me to look at life with more family values. Stan seemed to have his priorities in check. Stan never even made jokes or have sarcastic remarks about his mother In-law living with him. "Let's be honest", i could not take my mother in-law in to live with me! Stan's love of his wife Nancy has always been his priority, many of times as Stan and I would have conversations , i would hear him say he doesn't want to upset Nancy. most recently as we started assembling the front end of Stan's new project car, Stan would remind me he needs to get the T.A. together enough so Nancy could get her car in the garage for the winter. I offered to make that happen, because i know Stan wasn't one to ask . Stan had a funny way of asking for help, Stan would say to me, can i show you something or he would say i need your opinion on something, or tell me what you think? And before you know it, Stan and I are elbow deep in his car.
I have known Stan 35 + years, but the last 8 months actually spending time with Stan one on one, proved to be the most inspiring and privileged time shared with a extraordinary friend, husband, father, mentor to many, and a brother i never knew i had.
I will miss the text messages i was getting from Stan most days around 4:30 , asking if i was coming for dinner? most days i replied yes of coarse, but if i said not tonight, Stan would text me back , "You must have a date , have fun." The evenings having dinner with the Dogil's including mom, where always interesting. Many dinner conversations were based off my prior date night, Stan would ask if she is nice, is she local, am i going to see her again, but the others, Taylor, Ryan, Nancy, Colleen, James, sometimes Diane and even Mom would come up with their own version of how my date went and they all would run with it. But having that family bonding is worth all the laughs even at my expense. But i knew Stan had my back, at least that is how he made me feel!
I knew back in my early 20's, Stan is my mom's Favorite. One evening i surprised mom showing up at home for dinner, but as always i was late so i opened the freezer to see what i could have, the freezer was half full of frozen pizzas, mom tells me i can't have any of those, they are Stan's! And that was history. Nancy could not have found a better guy to marry. Over time Stan grew on me, i saw his attention to his children, the impressions he left with everyone he had contact with. Most recently 2 months ago i finally took Stan's invite to a Pontiac and Chevy car show. This was my first car show with Stan, and he has invited me to many, I saw Stan light up when we approached the field of cars. Stan knew many people by name and if not by name, he knew the cars they drove. That was one of my most inspiring days i have ever spent with Stan. Stan appreciated the work people put into their cars and made sure they knew it, even if some of the details may have been wrong, Stan never disrespected their efforts.
Stan is missed, but i will never forget how remarkable human being he was and how he has inspired me. Stan's last text message to me was "thank you Brother ".
I love Stan as my brother i never had. I am grateful for the time i had and all the memories that go along with Stan.
Here is a thought, if you google what is a Karen? the definition is a demanding middle-aged woman along with other things.
The definition of a kind, generous, loving, considerate, compassionate, affectionate, caring, devoted, honorable, respectful, incredible, inspiring, all around great human being ,, is
(Stan Dogil )
"Stan the man" with that unforgettable grin.
Love you Brother.