25/09/2023
Before you chase a lover, chase something else that's more reliable. Something like your goals and a strong foundation for your career. Something that won't wake up one day and say it's not in love with you anymore.
And paradoxically, your future lover will respect you more for knowing you have this resource as a backing against a setback in relationships. When people know you can do without them, they respect you more. Dependency is very unattractive. Self-reliance, on the other hand, is highly honourable because the person knows you're choosing them out of true love as opposed to being stuck with them because of your situation.
In short, if you want long-lasting intimacy, start by building a firm individuality. When you don't need rescue, you can bargain for pure love
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