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16/07/2026

Are We Asking Too Much of Driving Instructors… or Just Not Understanding the Job?

Everyone thinks they know what we do.
Sit there.
Give directions.
Get someone through a test.

Simple.
That version of the job does not exist anymore.

Every lesson is pressure.
Real roads.
Real risk.
Real consequences.

We are not just watching traffic.
We are predicting it.
Preventing it.
Intervening in seconds when it goes wrong.

And at the same time…
We are managing anxiety.
Panic.
Overthinking.
Confidence that disappears mid-roundabout.

We are adapting for neurodivergent learners.
Rebuilding people after collisions.
Supporting adults who have not driven in years.
Sitting beside someone whose hands are shaking before the engine even starts.

But here is the part no one talks about.
We are expected to do all of that…
calmly…
consistently…
professionally…

While the world outside the car gets worse.
🚘 Costs rising
⏰ Test delays stretching months
📱 Drivers distracted and impatient
🧠 Learners under more pressure than ever

And still…
People think we are “just instructors.”

No.
We are risk managers.
We are decision makers.
We are the barrier between a mistake and a collision.

And most of it goes unseen.
So next time you get frustrated behind a learner car, ask yourself this:

Would you want that responsibility?
Would you want to sit there, knowing one missed moment could change everything?

This is not just a job anymore.
It is responsibility at a level most people will never experience.

It deserves more respect than it gets.

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Sheena Ahmed
Motorvation School of Motoring

16/07/2026

So a first for me today. Dan had an Automatic licence , but needed a manual licence for work
So had a nice early start in Sunny Clacton. But was well worth it as he passed with just a couple of minors 😄.
Congratulations Dan , have fun driving in London 😱, rather u than me lol

11/07/2026

Feeling extremely grateful & overwhelmed. Received this amazing gift from Tom who passed his test with me a few days ago. Some cider from Clarksons farm & an incredible carrot cake made by his wife. And not forgetting the card handed to me by his youngest son
It was a lovely moment to see Tom with his family & see how all happy they were to what their dad had achieved. The boys took it in turns sitting in the car , with Tom taking their pictures. Said it was for his memories , to remember the journey . So so special. And I feel blessed to have been apart of it . This will stay with me always. Thank you again Tom , I wish u absolutely all the best moving forward . Enjoy your exciting new future 🚗😄

08/07/2026

Thank you for the kind review Tom
So proud of you Mr 💪😄🚗

07/07/2026

Where to start. All test passes are special , but today’s definitely felt extra special . Tom has overcome severe anxiety & lack of confidence to finally achieve his goal & open new doors for him & his family. To say I’m proud is a Massive understatement. The examiner was also extremely complementary & commented on a brilliant drive.
So please help me in Congratulating Tom May who passed First time today with just 1 tiny minor
Always said u could do it 💪. Now believe in yourself & enjoy your reward 🚗🚗

04/07/2026

23/06/2026

One of the first questions nearly every learner asks is how long it will take before they are ready to pass their test.

I completely understand why people ask. Driving lessons are an investment of both time and money, so naturally people want an idea of what lies ahead.

The difficulty is that no two learners arrive with the same experiences, confidence levels, learning styles, or challenges. What feels straightforward to one person can feel overwhelming to another.

Imagine a group of people all setting off on the same walk. Some will move quickly, some will stop and take in their surroundings, and some will need a little more support along the way. It does not mean one person is better than another. It simply means people develop at different rates.

Driving is no different.
Some learners need time to build confidence before everything starts to click. Others appear to progress quickly but still need experience in different roads, traffic conditions, and situations before they are truly ready to drive independently.

This is why comparing yourself to friends, relatives, or people online rarely helps. Their journey belongs to them. Yours belongs to you.

The most important thing is not how quickly you reach the finish line.
The most important thing is what kind of driver you become when you get there.

I would much rather see someone take a little longer and leave with confidence, good habits, and sound judgement than rush through the process and struggle once the L plates come off.

Learning to drive is not about keeping up with everyone else. It is about building skills, experience, and confidence that will stay with you for years to come.
It’s a skill that will keep you safe for your entire driving years if you stick to it.

A driving lesson teaches you what to do, why you are doing it, and how to do it safely. Private practice, where available, gives you the opportunity to put those skills into action and gain valuable experience on the road. The combination of professional instruction and regular practice is often what helps learners grow in confidence and become safe independent drivers.
It is never just about counting lessons.
It is about building experience and developing a skill for life.

Trust the process, focus on your own progress, and give yourself the time you need.

How many hours did you take to learn? 🫶🏾
✍️ Sheena Ahmed
Motorvation School of Motoring

04/06/2026

BBC BRAKE BEFORE CLUTCH

One of the most repeated phrases in driver training is “brake before clutch.”

The problem is that many learners hear that as an absolute rule. It isn’t. Like most things in driving, context matters.

At normal driving speeds, braking before the clutch makes perfect sense. The engine helps slow the car down, the vehicle remains more stable, and you avoid coasting. That is why it is taught and why it works well for most everyday driving situations.

The confusion starts when learners try to apply it to every situation without understanding why they are doing it.

Imagine you are reversing into a parking space at walking pace. The car is already moving extremely slowly. If you suddenly brake before pressing the clutch, there is a good chance the engine will run out of power and stall.

The same can happen in slow moving traffic, while creeping forward in a queue, or during certain manoeuvres where the car is relying on clutch control to keep moving.

Now imagine the opposite extreme. You are travelling at 70 mph on a motorway and something unexpected happens ahead. Nobody should be spending valuable time thinking about which pedal comes first. Your priority is to slow the car down immediately.

The brake is what stops the danger. The clutch is simply there to prevent the engine from stalling as the vehicle slows.

That is why driving cannot be reduced to a list of rigid rules. The Highway Code is full of rules. Driving itself is full of judgement.

A learner who only memorises instructions will often struggle when something happens outside the exact scenario they were taught. A learner who understands why a technique is used can adapt to different situations safely.

The real lesson is not “brake before clutch.” The real lesson is understanding what the car is doing, how much speed you have, and what the situation in front of you requires.

Driving is not about following scripts. It is about making the right decision at the right time.

A learner who only memorises instructions will often struggle when something happens outside the exact scenario they were taught.

A learner who understands why a technique is used can adapt to different situations safely.

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✍️ Sheena Ahmed
Motorvation School of Motoring

29/05/2026

People often joke about driving instructors having “the easiest job in the world” until they actually spend a day sitting in the passenger seat watching what we deal with every single day.

Imagine trying to teach somebody who is nervous, overthinking everything and still learning basic control of a car while other drivers sit inches from the back bumper, throw their hands up in frustration or sound the horn the second a learner takes slightly longer than expected at a junction.

Learners get pressured for sticking to speed limits.
They get pressured for slowing down where the road markings clearly warn them to.
They get pressured for taking an extra moment at roundabouts, crossroads and busy junctions because they are still learning how to judge speed, distance and safety.

Some drivers become annoyed because a learner stalled.
Others become annoyed because the learner did not rush out quickly enough after being let through.
Some get frustrated because the learner leaves a proper safety gap instead of driving aggressively like everybody else seems to expect nowadays.

The strange thing is, most people were once that exact learner themselves.
They just forget what it felt like.

They forget the nerves before pulling onto a busy road for the first time.
They forget approaching their first large roundabout while trying to process six things at once.
They forget how intimidating traffic can feel when every mistake feels huge and every impatient reaction around you makes the pressure even worse.

What many people do not realise is that instructors cannot teach inside perfect conditions. We cannot take learners into an empty classroom and explain driving through theory alone. Everything has to be learned in live traffic with real hazards, real decisions and real pressure surrounding them.

Every safe driver you see today once held up traffic.
Every experienced driver once stalled.
Every confident driver once hesitated.
Every person on the road once needed patience from somebody else.

Usually the attitude changes the moment we teach somebody from that person’s own family. Suddenly they understand why learners need space, time and encouragement instead of intimidation.

Most instructors are not trying to slow your journey down.
Today’s learner could be tomorrow’s safe, responsible driver.

A few extra seconds of patience from other drivers can genuinely make a massive difference to somebody learning one of the biggest responsibilities they will ever take on.

We are shaping the next generation of safe drivers, one lesson at a time.

To every driver who shows patience with learners, please know this: it never goes unnoticed, and it never stops being appreciated. 🫶🏾

✍️ Sheena Ahmed
Motorvation School of Motoring