07/04/2026
Do you want a traditional marriage based on obedience or a modern marriage based on a partnership?
In a traditional marriage, a woman has to obey her husband. in a modern marriage, she has to be considerate of him.
In a traditional marriage a woman is looking for a man to protect, provide, and lead, she needs to be obedient and submissive.
in a modern marriage, a man is not obliged to protect, provide or lead as each party is responsible to provide for himself or herself and to protect himself or herself and prohibited from leading as the decision-making is shared.
in a traditional marriage, In Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism, Islam, Judaism, Jainism, Sikhism, Shinto, Taoism And all major religions, a woman has to be obedient and submissive.
Men cannot invent new religions or a new Bible or new Quran, and new religious text for women or a new reality to suit feminist ideologies or change biology and biological nature of men and women.
Biologically, generally, men are created to be more logical, less emotional, physically and mentally stronger than women and because of that most innovations and wealth are created by men.
If a woman becomes successful in innovation or wealth in most cases it is because of her father or her husband or a male figure in her life. behind every great woman, there is a great man and not the other way around.
men and women will never be biologically equal. they are created this way for life to continue. No man will want to get pregnant to have kids but women do that because they are emotional and illogical and less physical and mentally strong. they were created this way for humanity to continue.
men are supposed to lead protect and provide for women but men cannot lead or protect disobedient women and provide for women with unreasonable financial expectations. reasonable financial expectation are basic food, basic clothing, basic shelter and medical care and education. anything beyond that such a uber eats, take away food, car, latest phones, holidays, entertainments is a generosity from the man and a luxury.
In all religions, a single woman has to obey her father, then her brothers. If her father is dead, then her uncles If no brothers, then her husband if she is married. Add to this list, a woman also has to be obedient and submissive to her adult son if she has one and she is not married.
A man whether he is a husband or a boyfriend, father or brother or a male relatives cannot lead, protect, and provide for a woman who does not obey, listen, submit, and execute his wills and wishes orders with enthusiasm and without hesitation—even if she disagrees with his orders just like a king or boss cannot rule, lead, protect, and provide for his people if they are rebellious.
For a man to protect and lead his wife. she needs to obey him, submit to him and execute his orders regardless she agrees with orders given or not or he is providing for her or not or he is observing or not what the religion or the customs or traditions dictates such as observing religious rituals.
In any type of marriage, A real man is not going to take responsibility and accountability for a woman’s actions done against his wishes and will, nor help her when she is in trouble because of her disobedient actions. Only simps do that.
Obeying and submitting to the husband’s wishes and executing his orders when she agrees with him or when it makes sense to her or when she thinks or feels it is logical for her is not true obedience or submission.
A woman is supposed to obey and submit to her husband even if her religion or her traditions says it is forbidden, but her husband religion or tradition says it is not.
The only time a woman can disobey her husband is when it is clearly forbidden by all religions or by law.
For a man to protect and provide for a woman and lead her, she needs to obey him and submit to him, and follow his instructions—even if she disagrees with him or even if he is not providing for her or even if she thinks he is not worthy of obedience.
being not worthy of obedience is not an excuse to disobey in a traditional marriage. it is an excuse used by disobedient women seeking perfection in man while being imperfect to belittle the man and diminish his authority.
So, if a woman wants a man to provide, protect, and lead, she needs to be submissive and obedient, and execute her man’s orders even if she disagrees with them.
It is unreasonable to expect a man to fund a rebellious wife or take responsibility and be accountable for her disobedient actions.
No man is going to spend his money on a rebellious woman, just as no company is going to employ anyone—man or woman—who does not follow instructions and pay him or her a salary or wages.
In a traditional marriage, no real man is going to pay dowry, buy a diamond ring or gold for a woman, spend money on a wedding or party, honeymoon, furniture, then spend money providing her with shelter, food, medical care, clothing, and paying the majority of the bills for his wife to be disobedient and rebellious. Only simps do that.
If a woman wants a modern marriage, she has to forget about the dowry and the diamond ring and the gold and she has to help pay for wedding, honey moon, furniture and she has to pay her fair share that is 50% of all bills.
In a traditional marriage, if a woman fails to execute her husband’s instructions, she is not wife material; she is only girlfriend material or modern marriage material.
For a girlfriend or modern-day wife, he does not have to pay dowry, nor pay for a diamond ring, gold, wedding, party, honeymoon, furniture, or rent, food, clothing, medical care, and bills. She has to pay her 50% share in all of that since she believes she is equal to the man.
All he has to spend on a girlfriend or modern-day wife is dinner and entertainment, and if she is a feminist, maybe he can get her to pay half or all, and then he does not care if she obeys or not. He does not have to provide, protect, lead, or worry about helping her when she is in trouble because of her actions.
If a woman cannot be obedient and submissive, then she has to find a simp who will agree to be in a modern partnership marriage , someone who will accept a disobedient woman in his life but also accept that he will not be able to protect her, provide for her, or lead her—because if he provides for her while she is rebellious, he will be encouraging rebellion against him, and no man will do that and because protection and leadership requires obedience and submission.
It is up to the woman to determine whether she is girlfriend material or wife material or want to be in a modern marriage or a traditional religious marriage.
she cannot pick the best from both worlds. she cannot choose religion and traditionalism when it suits her and pretend, she is weak and feminism and equality when it suits her.
if a woman chose modern marriage where she does not have to obey and submit then has to pay her full shares of the bills and do her shares of the work.
Equality to men requires accountabilities and duties like men. equality requires that women need also to do compulsory military service like men and equality in the legal system and sentencing for crimes as most women get lighter sentences then men because the legal system is biased toward men.
No voting rights for women unless they accept to do compulsory military service like men. compulsory military services for women were waved as a requirement for voting rights where women were obedient for their husband and they were raising five to ten kids on average to be soldiers for the nations but in today world most women are having only one or two kids if that.
She is disobedient because she has ego, pride, selfishness, and stubbornness. A woman needs to be humble and not selfish and easy going to be wife material whether in a traditional marriage or a modern marriage.
It looks like most women today are suffering from an unclassified psychological illness.
They wish they were born as men and, because of that, they are angry at men and want to feminize them to feel they are equal, but they are not.
They want equality without responsibility and accountability, and without being reciprocal.
They feel entitled just because of their gender. They want the right to vote without compulsory military service for women. They want equality but without sharing financial responsibility or doing the same duties men do. they want a man to be a gentleman and open doors and bring flowers like their grandfathers without the responsibilities and duties and obedience and submission of their grandmothers. Grandmothers were obedient and submissive and executed grandfathers’ orders with enthusiasm and without hesitation even if they disagree with them and even if they were helping grandfathers financially.
They want to be decision makers in a relationship without taking responsibility and being accountable for their decisions.
They want the men to obey them and submit to them and be considerate of them without them being considerate of the man. a woman who does not reciprocate or considerate is not wife material for a traditional religious marriage or a modern partnership marriage, she is only girlfriend material.
In all religions, disobedience to a husband is punishable by the divine or God in the life via hardship such as divorce or poverty or sickness mentally or physically or with failed kids in life or hardship in the afterlife. obedience to a husband is rewarded by a happy marriage, abundance, better health and successful kids in this life and in happiness in the afterlife.
In a modern marriage where a woman does not have to obey her husband, in a single mum household, kids grow up to be a failure in life or less successful than a traditional marriage, kids grow up to be drugs addicts, have illegitimate children and are more likely to go to jail or unemployed or fail to learn a profession or finish high school or university or stay singles forever or have failed marriages.
Kids who watch their mother rebel against their father and disobey him and disrespect him, they will fail to obey their teachers’ instructions at school, their boss instructions at work, the legal instructions of the law and eventually they are at greater risk of dropping school, becoming unemployed, homeless and be arrested and serve time in jail.
Nations who adopt laws to let women play victims and take custody and money from the husband when divorcing encouraging mothers to disobey and divorce their husband and encourage women to be selfish and to refuse to sacrifice their ego for their kids and for the marriage to work will fail to grow soldiers who can follow military instructions and sacrifice their life for the nation.
Those nations eventually will fail to protect their national interest and will be subject to occupation and humiliation by other nations.
Obedience of a wife is a matter of national security.
A nation can not adopt laws feminizing men and be unfair to men in custody and finance and then ask men to sacrifice their life for the nation and fight of the nation. men will refuse to do so.
Do you want a traditional marriage based on obedience or a modern marriage based on a partnership?
Do you want successful kids or failed kids?
Do you want your sons to grow up to be a real man or a simp?
Do you want your daughters to grow up to be happy wives or divorced single mothers?
Do you want happiness for your kids or sadness?
Do you want your nation to be occupied and humiliated in the future?
If you were disobedient and a single mum now, are you going to take responsibility and accountability for your children failure in life and accept the divine punishment for your disobedience in your life now and in the future?
The choice is yours?
Do you want a traditional marriage based on obedience or a modern marriage based on a partnership?
