10/02/2026
When Sarah Lahbati said this, you can feel that she had been carrying so much on her own throughout her relationship with Richard Gutierrez.
“I wanna be babied. I wanna be a princess! I don't wanna be a soldier all my life!”
Minsan kahit may partner ka, pakiramdam mo ikaw pa rin ang mag-isa. Ikaw ang laging strong, ikaw ang laging umiintindi. Nakakapagod maging matatag palagi.
Hindi naman masamang gustuhin na alagaan ka rin. Hindi ka weak kapag gusto mong maramdaman na may sasalo sayo. Everyone deserves to feel safe and soft sometimes.
May mga babae na sanay maging fighter dahil wala silang choice. Natututo silang tumayo mag-isa kahit gusto rin naman nilang may kasama. Pero deep inside, gusto rin nilang huminga at magpahinga.
Ang relasyon hindi dapat survival mode. Dapat may space para maging vulnerable, hindi lang palaging matibay. Love should feel like rest, not another battle.
Kung mahal ka ng tunay, hindi ka niya hahayaang maging sundalo mag-isa. Pipiliin niyang maging kanlungan, hindi dahilan ng pagod. Dahil ang prinsesa, hindi dapat laging nakikipagdigma.
